If you are excited about joining a free fuck buddy website, I really can’t say I blame you. It seems that these websites have proliferated over the internet pretty much like wild mushrooms after a long hot summer rain in Seattle. With that said, just because there are so many of these websites doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re in the clear.

This doesn’t necessarily mean that your efforts at developing friends with benefits have become all that much easier. In fact, I would argue that the complete opposite is true that the reality is that there is so many of these websites making all sorts of promises and claims that is very hard to separate the bullshit from the reality. In many cases, nine times out of ten you’re dealing with a pile of horseshit. It’s laid on so thick, it’s easy for you to swoon and pass out from all the wishful thinking.

The reality is that most of these websites are just digital sausage factories. That’s right, most of the members are guys. This is why if you are serious about joining a free fuck buddy website, you really have your work cut out for you. You really do. You have to have both a system and a plan. Otherwise, you are probably going to throw your arms up in disgust and just walk away and quit.

There’s a reason why there’s a high burn rate. There’s a reason why there’s a high attrition rate. It’s not because these websites can’t deliver. It’s because most guys don’t have what it takes. Most guys don’t have the proper mindset to look at the process of developing friends with benefits as a marathon instead of a sprint. You have to have the right mindset, otherwise, it’s too easy to just screw yourself up. It’s too easy to look for instant results and end up disappointed.